Well, assuming things are similar in your state:

This is only the initial response and it will be relatively cut and dried, point by point.

Yes, respondent agrees they are married and have children.

No, we do not agree to primary custody for the mother.

And so on.

So the judge will set a court date out in the future for you to come back with an agreement if possible. Maybe, issue temporary orders on custody and finances.

So, like it or not, it's already going to go before a judge.


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