I've stated my boundaries(shes walked over them). I told her that it would be best for us if she left. She agreed but the changed to vover the A even more. I am currently in a dim state with her and she is well aware of it. It is her choice to sleep in another part of the house and we haven't discussed it.

We haven't discussed ourselves much in the last several weeks.

The cycle hasn't stopped. She seems to agree that this isn't right and isn't fair but hasn't changed it.

I was under the impression that not pressuring her was the answer but that hasn't gotten us anywhere. I know that ultimatums are controlling but I'm not sure what else to do.

I may have to prepare myself to be the one to move out. I know that isn't advised here and doesn't even make sense to me but again I don't know what else to do.

I would love some advice.
Thanks


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015