wife during deployment EA/PA continued.

[dingo]

It totally makes sense and I don't necessarily see anything wrong with the single exchange either. Just wanted to give him a word of caution to continue to think about the larger goal (detaching).

Also - Rys please make sure you think really hard about your motives when you do something like this. I personally made a lot of excuses to contact my W when really, I was looking for her to say something nice that I would then frantically look for deeper meaning to. Be a little hard on yourself when you get the urge and make sure your motives truly lead towards detaching, or at the very least, don't adversely affect it.

Make sense?