Gogofo - LRT letter - planning a new beginning

[gogofo]

I agree wholeheartedly with Wonka. Read her post again, and follow it. Set your M/R goals aside, while you deal with the legal aspect. You have to.

Your W will use your assets/investments as a scare tactic to get what she wants. I can see it from a thousand miles away. Don't give her an opportunity to influence your legal decisions.

The way this would feel to me is that I have to risk losing $70k to have joint custody of the kids in the agreement.

This scares the s@!t out of me. Not that money is more important than the kids, but being able to provide goes a long way.

I still feel like I should let her know that I am filing a response to her complaint and not agreeing to the custody language.

I also feel like I should ask her what is going on with it because I do not want to be left in default without a leg to stand on. I am in the dark about what is going on and what her L is doing. If I do not file a response by Friday then I am in default, which means I am basically in agreement. Puts me at a disadvantage in the process.