If that is the case, the whole idea of the dissolution is that the spouses work out the agreement ahead of time. The judge reads over it and makes it official. It is not uncommon for 1 attorney to be involved and to do the filing. the negotiations and the wording is up to the spouses. I THINK this is what you are doing.
M42 W40 T17 M15 S13 S11 BD 7-14 A discovered 7-14 WAW moved out 10-3-14 D final 2-23-15