Hi Peter, I think it's best not to focus on a particular aim like 'renewing vows' or 'going to Grenada.' I think it you are ready to be done and you want to ask a final time, go for it. But from your posts, I'm questioning whether you are ready to be done. You don't really sound like you are.

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus