"She went to therapy for low self esteem two years ago, and started to really change."

This explains it all. It also explains you and your W swinging. You both needed validation from others. Problem now is that you can't control feelings.

What were some concrete problems that you had in your M? Detail them here. What did you argue about?


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER