If I do not contest the D complaint, then it is accepted and we go our merry ways. This is financially beneficial to me. If I contest it and we decide to both L up and go to court, then I could stand to lose a large portion of my retirement and other investments and inherit a portion of her student debt. Could cost me around $70k or more.
Wait a cotton-pickin' minute...I thought you said previously that all was fine and dandy with the exception of "primary custody". What I thought was that all the financials and division of assets were already agreed upon by you two (you had no reaction) with the exception of "primary custody" which is something that you don't agree with at all...is that right?
