Now I'm just rambling to myself...

I've seen many times on the boards people saying you can't "nice" your spouse back. But on the other hand, they say to build friendship. Are those incompatible? Maybe I just don't understand the concept of "nicing" someone back.


Me 28 / H 28
M 1 / T 2.5
BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more"
Still living together, separate rooms.