Sorry for the hijack, but I thought of something to say to Cadet.
After some thinking about your "welcome" greetings to newcomers, here's some suggestions for you. Over in the MLC forum, you do the usual greetings along with links to helpful resources/information.
I thought, why not do the same for newcomers and add links to Sandi's Rules along with Validation & Boundaries Cheat Sheets in your general greeting. That will aid the newbies in getting off to a good running start from the get go.
What do you think, Cadet? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~