IDK about those comments as it seems like it comes across as pressure. Yeah, you want reconciliation...the problem is that does W want that as well along with the benefits of a M?
That is why I suggested that you read the books I recommended to gain some further clarity on your needs.
My issue here is that I've seen you do this in many different ways and W brings up a host of issues that she holds onto resentments about in your face...some are even 10 years in the past!
I mean...what you've been doing isn't working very well.
That is why I suggested that you step back and really contemplate on what you really need from W before you have the talk with W. Because once you state your needs, you're going have to really back it up and not go Wet Noodle.
Let's face it: you're one hairline away from losing your credibility with your W with those "talks".
