Starsky, she did tell me all the details of her trip, described many of the girls she was with - it was basically a retreat of about a dozen women who are going through rough times in their lives and there was much yoga and mediation, early nights and healthy food. No drunken parties or chasing after men. It all seemed very genuine when she was telling me and I usually know when my W is lying to me.
She did cook me a delicious lunch today and is being kind although distant - said last night that she's still upset over what I did - hiring without consulting - do I understand her anger.
Yes, I know I'm insane. And this insanity WILL stop. I need to leave no stone unturned though. But thanks for the 2x4. I do need it.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
