Well good eveeeeeening all.

Just cooking dinner so 5 minutes to catch up and post.

W called this afternoon whilst I was on a conf call. Called her back no mention of card so didn't bring it up. Ostensibly called to ask me to pick up some bits from the garage (mil is putting the contents of their garage in there - aaand thats not my argument so letting her let them walk all over her as always anyways moving on) said sure no worries w then was decompressing over s and his screen hang up, resisted mentioning she gave him an old mobile but did suggest she look at time limiting apps we spoke about his h.e. simply said that regardless of our outcome we should look to maybe get a tutor or similar (I think the shine on 24/7 contact and teaching may be a little scuffed at present) reiterated I'm happy to get involved around weekend events and after work.

Was a nice conversation but she needed to get off and deal with s so told her go. Went around this evening and picked up the bits some are mixed hers and mine she said ok bring back what's hers also asked me to take S's fish tank I said we really should ask him but she said no take it so fine will set it up this weekend for him and let him pick a new fish.

Went in for a coffee and a short chat, could see card unopened on the bookcase so didn't mention it.

We both briefly had a chat with s over coming off screens when asked, petted the other cat and headed off to get on with dinner. W asked for a hand with the rubbish (they have a big paladin bin and her back is bad, s can't reach) trying not to do too much for her but equally dont want to be awkward so sorted.

Now home and dinner on. Meh not a bad interaction but I always feel like I'm summoned to talk and then she stops herself, for now ok but every time I feel a bit more like there's less to save maybe...mm not sure.

Anyway on with the curry, back later!


M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015