@Starsky309: I'm a pretty monogamous guy. I'm not sure I would want an open marriage, because I'm really not that into seeing other women. Plus I worry that her talk about openness is really just an excuse to be able to continue thid one relationship with the OM.
Then considering this:
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I confronted W about this and said I thought she was having an EA. She agreed, and said that she wasn't unhappy with me, but that she'd met the OM during a rough patch in our M and that they had a special connection. She apologized for hurting my feelings, but said that her relationship with the OM was important to her, and that she might not be cut out for strict monogamy. She said she still wanted to keep our relationship as the primary one, and that the EA with the OM was not physical.
W has now gone away on a week-long research trip with OM. I'm not sure what to do. I don't believe her that this thing isn't physical, and I'm worried that it is going to erode our M, with her turning more and more towards the OM.
it would seem that you'd better take a very strong, clear, unequivocal stand, don't you?
