At the moment I am not at all interested in a buddy buddy relationship. That is not the right term, because he shows no interest in friendship with me (like some other WAH), but we are not adversaries either. I can't really describe it. It's a bit more than just cordial because he does think we can have casual text or quick email conversations.. or that I will respond right away to a quick question or do small favors. That's not working for me right now and I guess that's because I'm just still working through the hurt.
While I am not as far along in the process as you are this is something I struggle with as well. My W will text (or call) with random, non-important stuff. Like she texted me yesterday complaining about the long line at Comcast. How do you respond to that? I just tried to empathize with her, but it was still odd.
