claire7, My S4 says "I miss mommy", every time I pick him up from school or he goes to bed. He has said "I miss my family"..etc. I asked if he ever told mommy he missed me or about the family. He said no. He has been not so nice to her and lashing out. I have asked him to be nice and love mommy, as I do. (post D) He needs to talk to her about why he is sad, mad, angry, and let mommy help him with those feelings. Well, Last weekend, he did. So now i know my WAW is getting to feel the same from S4. I hope it stops their issues. So, all that to say....YES it is hard to move on when your kids are hurting. I really got no closure from my WAW. I am in the opposite situation of you. It is difficult to comprehend why a loving and wonderful person would just pull the plug w/o trying to work on simple issues via honest conversations with me and a therapist.
Last edited by NewB3; 02/11/1505:43 PM.
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
