Thank you, and in the light of day I am actually encouraged by some of what I hear out of her. The therapist even said that she saw some positive baby steps. She still says things that are hard to hear; but I'm getting better at staying calm. For the first time I'm starting to feel like we're in piecing. I've said the P-word before, but this time does feel different.
I know she needs to process all this in her own way and her own time; patience is not either of our strong suits, as most of the regular posters on my thread are well aware.
Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood