Finally, I am 99.99% sure she is done with the A. She has not provided transparency to me, but she has shown a lot of improvement in that area. If she were in an A, she would be in NYC a lot more than she is. And she would act more like she did this past summer. My "spidey" senses have been pretty good and they tell me she is not in an A of any form.
I'm not saying she is or she isn't, Sho, but any man who's already been through what you've been through with your wife's infidelity, that relies not on a solid agreed-to transparency plan but rather on his "Spidey sense" is a damned fool.