When you are in your own situation, you can't see the obvious, but when looking from the outside, it is as clear as day.
After all this pain, people want to feel better. Those hopping into relationships, I believe, are looking for a bandaid. It feels better for a while but the wound hasn't even begun to heal. Be gentle with yourself, give yourself the gift of getting to learn about yourself all over again and when you are ready...you can share the wonderful person that you are with some lucky people that are part of your life.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory