Interesting responses from everyone. What do you think Gan? From what everyone says, it may be an idea to make contact - but only if you truly want an end to the 'limbo' and are prepared for an answer that you may not want to hear. Are you at that point?
A question from me - and sorry for butting in. If there is an OW in the picture (as in my sitch) would the advice be different? Part of my NC (apart from sanity) has been giving some time for the A to disintegrate...and it was sounding rocky last I heard, with OW not seeming that keen and H issuing ultimatums.
Keep posting Gan, and maybe if you're not sure if/how you want to do this, there will be more ideas...
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
