I hear you Ggrass. I'm really cautious too. I've spent a good part of my life from childhood on taking care of people in my life. Now I want to enjoy my life and do things that I want to do.
I'm the same as u kinda old school when it comes to being intimate. ; )
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.