One of my dear friends says: "I don't care what you call me. Just call me." You can call it what you want, but you ARE doing great. You're trusting the process, even though it isn't (naturally) bringing the "fast" results that so many people want and expect.
I know it hurts. But you're on the right path.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014