No contact from W today! This is the first day since we got back together after the first D that we have not talked at all. It's really a weird feeling.

I am resisting the the urge to tell someone about W writing love letters to the thug. D25 told me today that she is worried about her mother getting herself killed by this thug. She said maybe we should tell her best friend H. H has a good understanding of W's mental illnesses and addiction as well as the history of W's sexual abuse by her brother. H is not friendly with W's family.

W is planning to hook up with Mr Thug when he gets out of prison. He has multiple domestic violence charges, assault with a deadly weapon, attempted strangulation and an array of others.

My D25 found the letters by accident revealing her moms plans.

Should D25 or I tell H about this? W usually listens to H's advice.

M 53
W 44
D25 D20 S22
PA 10/95
BD abt 2k EA
BD 9/2004 PA D'd 1/05/05
DB'd 9/2004-08 PA ends 02/2005
XW rehab 03/2005 piecing until OM3 June?/2005
Remarried 12/28/07
BD 12/18/14
Sep living together