Most of my experiences have been positive...thankfully! Also the fact that she deleted all our emails rather than just ignoring or blocking me says she may be erasing her trail. In my experience people usually delete as an angry statement...and if she's angry 'cuz I asked where abouts she lived in a huge city then I dodged a bullet lol. Again, POF knows better than I what constitutes"unusual activity" and I'd rather err on the side of protecting others rather then protecting her!