Somehow Pundit, I think you're not seeing the whole dynamic. Just an instinct on my part - hard to put into words why exactly.
Reading your thread, it almost seems like she wants you to be the one to end it. As if she wants to avoid being that person herself. If you really want to save your relationship, that may be a good thing. Or it may not. Too early to tell.
I think it's clear what you want. I have no idea from your posts what she wants though. The clues to that may be in the past and she may not be willing to bring them up now. Or even really know right now.
Some questions: What about you are you willing to change? I mean deep down, what's important to keep and what is not about YOU? With or without her in your life?
What is it you want for her? What does that look like to you?
And Sandi's right - newcomers might give you more feedback.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
