Oh, wow, got smacked upside the head about the FB thing. Feel like a loser frown . Maybe I should call my DB coach who in two sessions advised me to open a FB and start posting the fun things I was doing.

Originally Posted By: Matt165
If I were to "accept" that this is who she is now and that's that, I would also need to accept that I would never want her back in my life

This is exactly what I’m thinking too. To me, accepting and letting go because they are the way they are now means exactly the end. I don’t understand “for now” part at all. If now they are like that and you lose all the respect and love, this is it.

And BTW, H seems to be actually enjoying himself. It is just new for him to advertise it to the world. Maybe he is having so much joy in his life that he wants to share it with everybody.

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state