Do I say a time period like "let me know by 2 days from now what your decision is" or just say it and then shut my mouth or say it and get up and walk out of the room?

Thanks Starsky.

Off tomorrow, doing a few fun things for myself...plans to spend time with dad during the day playing with chainsaws and firewood (which I enjoy) and plans to spend the evening with a guy friend after D is in bed too. Won't tell W the above until probably Monday after my individual counseling session.


Me:39 W:33
Married 6/07
D6
Found out about affair 9/14