Thanks Vapo!
I'm making progress detaching, slowly but surely. Can't deny I miss my life with her and that I do have hopes. My expectations are very very low tho, but not none.
I have to stick with my plan. 25yr always told me nothing works unless you go with it for at least a few weeks, if not months.
I have a last session with a DB coach, might use it soon to really make sure I stay on track. I not only need more time to detach but also to get over my depression and build my life.

Is there more resource than DR on 'how to deal with S, if someone filed for D or is about to?'


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15