With help from you and other DBers I have realized that I have a codependency problem. I must tackle anger and codependency as my two major issues. I have not read the book, so I will order it ASAP.
Have tried to fix W who has some pretty serious mental health issues and is a recovering? opiate addict, who relapses fairly often. I'm realizing this is impossible and unhealthy for me.
With the last week I learned that I can never control my anger by suppressing it. Instead when I'm am angered I must learn to channel it appropriately.
As always thank you for your help.
M 53 W 44 D25 D20 S22 PA 10/95 BD abt 2k EA BD 9/2004 PA D'd 1/05/05 DB'd 9/2004-08 PA ends 02/2005 XW rehab 03/2005 piecing until OM3 June?/2005 Remarried 12/28/07 BD 12/18/14 Sep living together
