Ganb8te 4 - Putting on my giraffe ears

[LisaB]

Hi beautiful babe, I may be way off base but here goes.

I sense you are getting close to being done with waiting around to see what he does next.

So I say contact him, ask to meet up, and ask him what is going on. 100% against db principles. It sounds crazy maybe but I guess you can ask yourself what do you have to lose? Do you think doing that would push him away? Further away? Do you think if he s considering reconnecting with you this would make him reconsider? Are you ready to hear a possible cold truth that he has moved on?

If you are in limbo and want out, ask. Don't involve friends, just be direct. As long as you are cool and not confrontational, it is just honest communication. As long as you don't cry and beg, you are just asking a simple question.


Just an idea, maybe a crazy one. I think that's what I would do if I were you but that's just me.

Hugs!