Oh, Susana! (3)

[susana4]

Hi Susan, I hope your day is going better. I've been thinking about you a lot recently. I hope you realize how far you have come for yourself and your detaching. I also want to remind you, that when you are feeling guilt, (which I do all the time) you remember that you told me that we have to not worry about their feelings, but what's best for you. That will help everyone in the long run. I think it would be easier if our Hs weren't people pleasers.

Hi Erin, thanks for your message and keeping me in your thoughts. And thank you, I often feel like I haven't detached enough/very much but it's hard to see when you're in it. Today I feel a lot more peaceful and detached though. I suppose this is how progress is made - in fits and starts. Oh Erin, using my own advice on me! I like it! You're right, I need to remind myself of that, I need to do what's best for me. And oh yes, it would be a LOT easier!