Yes please don't feel guilt. he's the one who has changed and wants to leave you!!!!! You are being awesome and work in thibgs, he didn't connunicate well enough and doesn't fulfill his responsibilities for the M. Never forget that. Whatever you did wrong in the past, you are the one with the ambition to make a difference!!
Thanks, he's definitely at fault too (I guess we share it though, we both made mistakes, and got into bad cycles). But I have the power to change me now, you're right, and I am making changes on me!! I've got that ambition H is making changes too, I get glimpses of that, which does really impress me (it impresses me he has because I imagine as a WAW it's easy to blame the LBS for all your issues and not confront them). But anyway, I shouldn't really peek on his lane and just focus on my own work, right? Because I have plenty!
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
H is making changes too, I get glimpses of that, which does really impress me (it impresses me he has because I imagine as a WAW it's easy to blame the LBS for all your issues and not confront them). But anyway, I shouldn't really peek on his lane and just focus on my own work, right? Because I have plenty!