I need to wave the white flag and just tell stbx that divorce is fine. Fine.
SS, when you realize that you don't want your old M back, it does make it a little easier to wave that white flag. I'm with you. My M was good, but it wasn't great. I would have stayed in it forever. BUT now H has gone off and ruined that. So......the amount of work it would take to get back to good would be tremendous, the amount of work to get to great is probably impossible.
