Sounds like a good thing that you put off the conversation about him moving.
Honestly, you sound much better than you did just a couple of weeks ago. You are doing well with only sharing your situation with your 3 friends.
Keep on keeping on.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa