That boundaries post is incredible Starsky!!! Everyone should go read that thing over and over like the 37 rules.
I have been thinking about it all afternoon and I will wait 2 days before doing anything just to make sure I am comfortable with it but boundaries....I get it. I, me, this guy is worth more than the way I am being treated. I therefore respect myself enough to set boundaries in my life as to what I am and am not willing to have put upon me for me.
The below is a work in progress but for all the smaller things I would like to work on, nothing compares to that W is still having a PA and therefore...
" I will not continue to live in an open relationship. When you continue to spend most of your free time with OW instead of with your child or working on our marriage I feel like a doormat as if this is a hotel and not a home for you. I want someone that wants to choose their daughter and their marriage in my life. If you want to be married to me, I want you to put your daughter and your marriage as a priority again and start focusing on those things."
Thoughts?
(((((screeeeeeeeech)))))) Veered off course there at the end! Do you see it?
