I know I built up false hope that she would change her mind if I pulled the pressure off.
I am guessing that you have made other changes, aside from relieving the pressure? What is different about you today, from when you got here? What are the changes that would motivate her to reconsider?
Originally Posted By: gogofo
I guess I am scared that this is the end. I am hurt that the love I feel for my W does not matter anymore. I am stuck on only wanting to love my W and mother of my children, not a new person. I am scared how this will effect our children. I am hurt and scared.
Your W knows that you are there for her is she so chooses. There isn’t a whole lot of motivation for her to reconsider under this scenario.
gogofo, are you happy with who you are? Not what your W or anyone else thinks of you. This begins with you.
I can relate to you when it comes to your children, and that sukks.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
