Talked to father inlaw today. He said he talked to W and she told him I'm not the same person anymore since returning from deployment. And she doesn't know who I am anymore. He told her that it's not true I am still that same person but she has completely closed me off during this whole ordeal. From my side I think I have changed, hell I come home to who is supposed to be the love of my life and best friend to find out she loves someone else and has been sleeping with him for a month. Ummmm of course I have changed. What a stupid statement. It's gotta be something for her to just validate her actions even more.