hi mahhhty, just catching up on your situation. Isn't the NewEng weather fantastic lately........
for what it's worth (and I am certainly no expert - only just beginning to have to work through things like parenting schedules) your last response sounds very appropriate and respectfully detached.
Stay strong!
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork