And the BGP thing: my W actually has them n, she always did. Maybe not emotionally, but in life she's a very independent woman. She doesn't need me...
She just has her own style if doing things, and you better do not ever interfere with it, bc she never wants to get told what to do or how to do it.
So I ditched her with helping, she might be in 'I'll make him put his BBPs on' payback-mode (which is ultimately right, I understand her, the picture she has of me). We will see.

Last edited by Complex; 02/10/15 10:06 PM.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15