Good to see you here...glad you were able to enjoy your travels and hanging out with cool people.
What a long update.
Say that you just met this guy last week, would you date him? Would you consider him as marriage material?
I know, I know. He is in MLC. You just cannot fritter away your life if he won't or will not do a jot as a good-to-honest-spouse.
What he does around the house etc, you just can do it yourself and even hire a handyman to handle occasional projects.
I need to say this: I do worry that if you do divorce H, that you will saddled withe farm and the animals. It's a drain on you emotionally, physically, and mentally. Heck, it is been happening for a while.
You DO matter. Sometimes we hang on to things out of "obligation." I have learned that it is okay to say "no" and/or turn things down.
My time and energy are a very valuable commodity that I own 100%. If I say "no" and people are not pleased with my choices, oh well...they're not living my life.
