I will delay reply until tomorrow and just say thanks. Although – he did ask a question; do I want contact from him or not – so if I don’t answer that then he will just ask the question again.
Job – can I ask why you feel I should not sign off as normal? It’s something I have always done and he to me – Isn't leaving a small amount of sentiment between us keeping the door slightly ajar so if he comes out of this he knows I have not completely closed myself off - or is that the point, he needs to think I have?
Gwen - So you think he is fishing - he doesn't want me but wants to see if he still has me on his hook? Hmmm, I just saw it as him being nice about not wanting to upset me more ….I am so not good at this !!
GB – thanks for your lovely comment – This latest little flurry of contact has not changed anything – I still intend to carry on with my plans regardless of what he wants or is doing – he has no idea I am returning to NZ – I don’t intend telling him, he will hear it from the boys –
