Yes please don't feel guilt. he's the one who has changed and wants to leave you!!!!! You are being awesome and work in thibgs, he didn't connunicate well enough and doesn't fulfill his responsibilities for the M. Never forget that. Whatever you did wrong in the past, you are the one with the ambition to make a difference!!
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15