She wanted me to leave two weeks ago when she thought I was trying to manipulate her. I did not tell her the day I received the dissolution papers from her L. She thought I was trying to delay and prolong the process (manipulate her), I thought her L had notified her.
All through your stitch you have been too afraid to let go. In the process, you held a tight grip on her. I think the best thing to do now is to really let go of her. You don't need to tell her you are letting go, okay? She will know if you do.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
