Peter, I've read all of your sitch, and I think you're doing admirable. I also think sandi is right in this one. You have put yourself out there to try and help her throughout all this time, and she throws it back at you. It sounds like you need put make sure your boundaries are firmly in place and continue focusing on you while she is spewing.

On a side note, and not intending to hijack, sandi or starsky, could one of you guys take a look at my thread? I've seen much wisdom from both of you throughout all the forums, and I'm struggling with the best way to act now that the A has been revealed.


M: 8.5 T:10
Me:37 W:34 S:6

Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15
Piecing - 7/4/15 to present