Thanks for the update on your sitch. You've done a great deal of self-work and you should be rightly proud of yourself. Taking the high road can be a very lonely activity at times.
Originally Posted By: Devaste
She keeps sending me articles about BPD, but sometimes I feel like the diagnosis is not an excuse for an affair.
Damn straight! You've got this right. Short of psychopath, people generally DO know that having an A is plain wrong and hurtful.
You are doing great with your children and they'll be very close to you in their adulthood. Ya know...changes from teens to young adults then to mature adults. I grew closer to my late father around age 25 when I've burned through pretty much every youthful indiscretions imaginable (except drugs).
