Starsky, I am not trying to refute what you say sir. I mean that. Truly. I have already gone down these roads before and screwed them up. W would say she is going to workout class and see you after workout and then not come home until midnight or later. I told her I didn't appreciate that she couldn't communicate her actual intentions or if she was going to be late to let me know so I didn't worry about her. She told me I was controlling. Everything masterfully gets thrown in my face and I have no clue what the "proper" retort is to something like that.
4m, I don't know what else to say to you. Until you realize that DBing isn't about clever "retorts," it's about strong, leading ACTIONS, you're not going to get anywhere.
Your wife has long since learned to ignore your "retorts."
