Very little. W was/is recovering from massive surgery and just returned to work yesterday. She has been playing a sympathy card about needing to heal and get back to work and get healthy before she can make a decision. It is probably time for me to suggest that since she can go and workout and spend 5-7 days a week with the OW and return to work yet stay out late still that this has changed enough for the better that it is time for things to change.