W still having PA with OP

[4mendmj]

Very little. W was/is recovering from massive surgery and just returned to work yesterday. She has been playing a sympathy card about needing to heal and get back to work and get healthy before she can make a decision. It is probably time for me to suggest that since she can go and workout and spend 5-7 days a week with the OW and return to work yet stay out late still that this has changed enough for the better that it is time for things to change. I am seriously not playing stupid here, I am in virgin territory....what actions are you referencing? Tell her I am no longer doing her laundry? Tell her that since she is capable of returning to work and still be gone half the night that it is time for her to decide? If I ask the 2nd question she will just play it off that she is still healing and she doesn't know and she even masterfully has said "if you want out, then file" A perfect threat that backs me down in the past. Again, all I can therefore think of is filing. Not because I want to but because I don't know what actions to take instead. Starsky, would you give me 5 action based examples of things I could do? At least get my brain rolling on what it is you are referencing so I can start going down that path??