Maybe so Starsky...you hit the nail on the head. I AM having a tough time. Moving on to me is tough. I feel I have to be "here" for me to be emotionally available. I feel I have ups and downs as anyone would in my situation. I write here through the ups and downs. (Journaling and asking questions along the way /see my previous thread) You said: "Anyone who has been divorced for 6 months, and then posts a lengthy post about how to re-attract their wife, and then only 24 hours later posts again with a "I really need to know how to react!" post . . .
Let's see here. I am just getting to where I can feel normal again (defined by me). I miss her and have not been very friendly, but have done co-parenting well. I simply want to feel free of my thoughts. Free of keeping on this mask of "I'm mad at you and am not willing to let you be around me or let you back in". Truth is, I want her to feel free to reach out, but I know she understands that this is not a buddy. I can walk away, but must leave the door open. Leave this in a good place so that should she feel she wants to reach out, she does not feel shut out. Just trying to navigate my thoughts and feelings the best I can.
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
