Most times, pride/ego is something that stands in our way. In THIS case, it's good to use it to help you.
Picture this: Your W is in LaLa Land with OM. She knows. You know. She knows you know. Valentine's Day rolls around. You send her flowers, candy, a card or balloons. Think about how she'd perceive you: she's receiving gifts from her HUSBAND - the man she vowed before God she'd "forsake all others" for - and he KNOWS she's having an A with OM - and he's still sitting around thinking of her on Valentine's Day, spending money on her on the "day for lovers" ...
C'mon, Rysin. Of course you know better. Not to be too vulgar here, but you might as well wrap your testicles in pink tissue paper and give them to her.
No way, partner.
Strength and honor. Say it with me: Strength and honor.
What have you been doing lately to GAL?
If you want to know how your wife perceives this kind of pursuit and supplication, just re-read Train's wise words over and over and over again. SHE'S A GIRL!!!! lol
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